Holding Two Realities at Once

Chairman Jeffrey McKay
Fairfax County
Holding Two Realities at Once
This week’s Community Catalysts episode runs a little longer than usual—and it’s worth the time.
In my conversation with Chairman Jeffrey McKay of Fairfax County, we explored two realities that many local leaders are holding at the same time.
The first is immediate and pressing. Federal workforce reductions and policy shifts are creating real economic and social consequences across Northern Virginia. Chairman McKay describes how this moment feels different from past crises. During COVID, the country was aligned in response. Now, many local leaders feel they are navigating disruption without the federal government pulling for them.
That means protecting residents in the short term while rethinking long-term economic resilience.
The second reality is institutional and enduring. We talk about One Fairfax, a framework that reshaped how the county evaluates its decisions. Think of it as a values upgrade—an intentional commitment to examine how choices affect opportunity across communities.
The examples are practical and revealing: where a bus stop is placed, where a domestic violence shelter is located. Decisions that may seem small, but quietly shape life trajectories.
What stays with me from this conversation is how leadership operates at multiple altitudes—responding to pressure while strengthening the principles that guide future decisions.
This episode is part of our ongoing series sponsored by
RELI, the Regional Elected Leaders Initiative at
George Mason University’s Schar School of Policy and Government.
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